The doctors say I’m lucky to be alive. They said if I survived, mine would be a multi-year recovery with no guarantee of regaining 100% of my physical or cognitive functions. Apparently middle-aged broads from the Midwest like a good challenge and, ten months later, I feel almost fully recovered.
This sentiment is anchored in deep and genuine gratitude and, like an anchor, it also possesses quite a bit of heft. What does one do when they find themselves in the position of being given a second chance? Where does life go from here?
I narrowed it down to linking my two greatest loves: design and dogs.
Which brings me today to proudly announce the launch of my “The Birds & The Bees” jewelry collection, with proceeds going to dog and cat shelters across the US through my new initiative “Going to the Dogs.”
The process of designing these 18 pieces of jewelry with the renowned Ciner was the best therapy imaginable. Being back in the wide world of fashion and business again, after months of slow rehabilitation, was just what this gal needed. I have always thrived amid my projects. From the time I was a child, creativity has shaped everything I am, and without my work, I wouldn’t be me.
I got tremendous joy in reinterpreting Ciner’s mid-century castings into a distinct collection including bracelets, cuffs, necklaces, earrings, belts, and a pin.
Each item is made to order and produced by hand, using the finest materials including 18k gold plating, rhodium, Swarovski crystals, pewter, and brass.
I focused on Ciner’s classic bee – important environmentally and finally getting the attention it deserves, along with their dove – anything in the bird world attracts me, and their majestic dragon – often the staring role in my favorite Chinoiserie.
Ciner is still family owned and operated after 127 years. Elizabeth Taylor was a long-standing customer and collector. It is the only surviving fine costume jewelry company that designs, manufactures and produces each piece in their Manhattan atelier. With my modus operandi being quality craftsmanship, this partnership was an obvious choice.
“Going to the Dogs” was an easy decision – my dogs are my second family and I am never happier than when I’m surrounded by them. Cuddling and caring for them during my recovery gave me the very things all people need to continue – love and hope!
My house has been a revolving door of rescue animals and we’ve had as many as thirteen dogs at one time. These rescues have come from different sources; divorces, actual shelters, taking a dog from the fallout of 9/11 panic, and saving an abused dog from a horrible owner. Helping animals in need has been incredibly fulfilling and a blessing in my life, so it only makes sense for me to expand on this.
‘Going to the Dogs’ is a win-win proposition. Treat yourself or a dear friend this holiday season to some fine jewelry, while helping to rescue animals.
I’m happy to include a personal note.
With great gratitude for so many things, including to you, my dear reader,
Carolyne
The Birds & The Bees jewelry line is available at the Carolyne Roehm Shop.
Congratulations and bless you for helping the dogs and the bees!! The collection is beautiful..as is your soul. ❤️
Thank you, Barbara! This has been a project teeming with passion for me!
What a loving way to show gratitude! To create beauty which will help dogs and cats in need. I’m so glad you have made such a magical recovery- and I’m sure your pooches had a lot to do with it. They rescue us! I’m a dog mom to four shelter dogs and arrange placement and transport for West Virginia shelter dogs to NY rescues. I understand the power of the love, gratitude and empathy of shelter dogs – and appreciate your efforts to help them and get them the homes they deserve. Now Witt these lovely creations, you will be saving their lives, and healing them as you have healed.
Julie – I am honored by this opportunity. On the other side of any shelter animal who needs a home is a lifetime of shared love and gratitude. You are so right – the truly rescue us. Your work sounds amazing and so valuable – it takes a village to make sure these animals land where they belong.
From the first time I discovered your beautiful books of design by seasons I was enthralled. You are truly one of the most glamorous elegant designer I have ever seen. You’re class and beauty reflect your stunning designs, art, gardening and decorating. You have inspired me and I want you to know how special you are. God Bless and continue to heal you both in body spirit.
Gayle – those words mean so much to ANY designer! Thank you so much for your well-wishes. They inspire me to keep going during my recovery and to create more!
I am so glad you are feeling much better and by the grace of God, thriving! While a young college girl years ago, I always admired your sense of design and classic style. I couldn’t wait to get your catalog in the mail showcasing your beautiful creations for the season. Creatives like yourself never run out of ideas to make women feel and look beautiful. You are indeed a living miracle and cheers to many more years of love, happiness and good health.
Kelly – you have touched on what has always been an essential goal of mine – making women feel good about themselves. Because when we feel good, there is nothing we can’t accomplish or endure. That confidence is irreplaceable and we need it to take on the world (and care for all the important people in our world). Wishing you a beautiful holiday season!
Dearest Carolyne, you are always an inspiration in every way.
Am so glad you are better. You are loved!!
Tracy
Thanks so much for the touching words, Tracy. There is no better way to be!
You are an inspiration to all
Irene – thank you so much! I think we gain inspiration and strength in sharing our stories with each other (and sometimes, our struggles). I have felt so inspired by all those with the courage to share with me – because somehow, we lighten our burdens and carry each other along.
Fantastic news in every way. Wishing you all the best.
Amy – to you as well! Wishing you a lovely holiday season!
Keep healing honey! Praying for your continued journey towards good health.
Blessings,
Judy Wadsworth
Judy – making positive strides most days and feeling lucky to still be on the journey! Thank you so much!
Oh Carolyne, like you I am also recovering from a very serious illness. The neighbour’s crazy cat has helped me tremendously in helping me cope. Sounds silly but true. Of course, seeing all the beauty that abounds is medicine to my soul. Greetings from Munich,Germany!
Maria – I am sending you good thoughts and strength during your recovery. There is no other medicine like the comfort of an animal companion (and neighbors are pretty wonderful as well!). Wishing you better health and peace this holiday season!
All of these pieces are so beautiful! I really want to order the bee stud earrings, and would love to see a picture of them on a person. Is there one posted somewhere?
April – those earrings are just lovely and so versatile – can be worn as formal or add some some classic elegance to your more casual looks. We sent you a few pictures – hope they are helpful!
So glad you are on the mend. You make this world a much better place. Love the new collection.
Keeping you in my prayers. Stay well!
Eve – my animals have made MY world a much better place – I am so honored to have the opportunity to give back to them (and the places that cared for some of them). Your continued good thoughts are heartwarming and much appreciated!
Dearest Carolyne
You were so missed this year by all your devoted ladies at the California Club. We all prayed for your recovery and our prayers were answered. We are buzzing with excitement about your new venture with Ciner. With our love and best wishes always. You are so beloved
Joanie Aldrich
Joan – all the prayers and positive thoughts I have received have meant the world to me – such an impactful force! I too am thrilled about this venture as it brings together two very important facets of my life. I hope you enjoy the collection – it was a thrill to design! Please give my best to all!
Carolyn I’m so sorry to hear you weren’t feeling well. I had a heart scare at 50 and the funny thing is it made me live life more fully and have gratitude for each day! I’ve learned to take it easier and not over book myself . Take care and I enjoyed your lovely post as always ! Lynn PS I have four dogs . Almost adopted a fifth !
Lynn – that is the silver lining of any health struggle – you hopefully take stock and prioritize. Keep being kind to yourself and enjoy the peace (although there may be less of that with a 5th pup – but that’s a happy chaos!). Wishing you continued good health and a very happy holiday season.
I’m so happy for you, Carolyne! Onward and upward dear lady!
Thank you, Amanda! This launch and cause is bringing me much joy! Enjoy your holiday season.
Dear Carolyn,
I am the fan who stopped you on the street in NYC when you were walking with your friends from South Carolina. Your life is a beautiful inspiration. Congratulations on your latest endeavor and all the best in healing to 100%!
Hugs,
Roxanne
Yes! Nice to hear from you again, Roxanne! Thank you for the supportive, kind words. Wishing all the best.
Carolyn, So very happy to hear that prayers have been answered and you are well on your way to full recovery. Wishing you great success with your new, beautiful venture!
Thank you, Judy! It has been a very exciting and fulfilling time for me, for sure!
Antiquegoddess HERE from Instagram!
I found my answer HERE and ordered THAT DOVE RING on your fingers!EVERYTHING IS LOVELY as YOU ARE.I will sit MR.KLAUS down with me at the computer this weekend!
I am SO HAPPY YOU ARE ALMOST BACK TO YOU!YOU are SO NEEDED in this world of CASUAL exercise pants and BORING ATTIRE!
YOUR BOOK from LAST year is MY FAVORITE COFFEE TABLE BOOK EVER!
I am an ANIMAL LOVER TOO!
DOG, CAT,chickens and a piggy who lives in the HOUSE!Tomorrow I will have Mister Piggy on Instagram eating a RAVIOLI !!!!FROM a FORK OF COURSE!HE EATS with us his second dinner each night!
I would LOVE to meet YOU one day and just give YOU a BIG HUG and say THANK YOU for being YOU!
MY Mother was from INDIANA and you are right about those MidWesterners!STUBBORN!!!
CONGRATUALTIONS!!
XX
LA CONTESSA
AKA:Elizabeth K.
That ring is one of my very favorite pieces – enjoy it and wear it in good health! You deserve the treat of glamour after so nobly tending to that menagerie of animals – how amazing! Your kind and enthusiastic words are like a big hug and I thank you so much!
Oh, Carolyne – so happy to get your blog this morning with the wonderful jewelry. Fantastic!!! You amaze me. The best part is you are well now and your spunk in your writing about being a middle-aged broad from the Midwest cracked me up and gave me a good laugh. All your fans are so happy you are recovered to continue to share your beautiful talents! Happy November!
Barbara – HA! We broads form the Midwest must stick together (and keep laughing through our tougher times)! I’m overjoyed to be in the position to share with my readers again and this project has sparked me in the best of ways. Thank you for the encouragement and for the smile!
What a lovely and heartfelt project! I’m so glad that you’re almost fully recovered from your illness and wish you lots of health and happiness in the days ahead. I love the jewelry, especially the bees! My name means “honey bee” in Greek, so I have a special love of bee jewelry, stationery, etc. 🙂
The bee is a favorite of mine as well and so fun to interpret through jewelry! It is a project that has infused me with passion and direction so many thanks!
I’m grateful so many prayers were answered… including mine… and you’re still here to share your love for animals and the beauty of nature with us! Continue to heal and grow stronger. xoxox, Brenda
Brenda – what sweet words! I am taking it day by day!
Dear Carolyne,
I absolute love your content. So many beautiful things. It’s a pleasure to see your home, your garden or your amazing jewels.
I wish you well.
Kisses,
Xavier
Xavier – thank you so much for the kind words – it was some of my most fulfilling design work yet! I feel very lucky! Best to you!
Dear Carolyne – We always knew Missouri girls ROCK. But, you have really proven it this time. But it’s not just that Midwest stock… You truly are a SPECIAL one. I am constantly amazed at all you do. So many here use the word “Inspiration” so I hate to just chime in with the same word but… my gosh, it’s the perfect word. In addition, though – I, like all your readers, followers whatever am so immensely thankful you’ve come through this crisis and emerged with yet another triumph. Keep going !
But it is a lovely word, Kim, so I thank you dearly. I feel so fortunate to be sharing my work with my readers again – that’s where I get my daily dose of inspiration! I am getting better each day and when I need a boost, I may just have to make “Missouri Girls ROCK” my mantra!
Dear Carolyn
I didn’t quite realize you were not well. I have been away and i put my emails onto “automatic delete” so-to-speak (then they start miraculously emailing again some months later).
I enjoy your writings and i am sorry to learn you have been unwell.
Our priorities sometime change when we have a life-threatening event and our life is forced to become slower and simpler. It’s a relief in some ways.
You sound like you are getting on track now. Good for you!
We love dogs, too (and what woman doesn’t love jewellery?!).
Take all the time you need and look after yourself.
All the best, Carolyn.
Deb – thank you so much. And yes, slower and simpler is just what the doctor has ordered (for now!). I feel so very lucky for my loved ones and my improving health. This collaboration has been a dream for me and has kept me motivated during my recovery!
I wish you a complete recovery. I am so happy to hear you are better. You have worked with my daughter, Cullen, in the past on books and she enjoyed this opportunity so much. Thank you for a wonderful blog, for your books—and for sharing.
Margaret – please give my best to Cullen – she was so wonderful to work with in every way! And thank you for the kind, supportive words! Wishing you both a joyful holiday season.
Carolyne, I had no idea you were in a health crisis, but am grateful that you have made a great recovery. I am equally thrilled that you want to help dog and cat rescue places. What a wonderful idea and so very needed. Only a dog or cat can give you unconditional love day after day for their entire lives. How lucky are we to be the recipient of that love? Better yet, what a gift we get from our beloved dogs and cats. Thank you very much for this wonderful endeavor. Best to you and your loved fur babies!
Nancee – Oh, how true that statement is! The unconditional love our pets show us day after day is one of the many reasons our animals are owed love, protection, help and safe homes. I’m honored to be part of this very worthwhile cause. Thank you for your uplifting words – I’m feeling stronger each day!
Fantastic news! Thank you for taking care of all those precious souls that cannot speak up for themselves. Completely heartwarming. 🥰
Kelly – thank you for the encouragement! I owe a great debt of gratitude to those adorable, furry faces and am honored to be involved in this project! It combines two great loves and mine and has given me a renewed sense of purpose!
So glad to hear you are recovering nicely! I am thrilled to hear of your project to support animal shelters as this is one of my favorite charity missions as well. I must get to the Shop to buy something wonderful. All my dogs over the years have taught me how to be a better person and to take life as it comes with a positive attitude. My late father-in-law had a great saying – “The more you know people, the more you like dogs!” How true. Karen
Karen – Ha! And he was a VERY wise man! There is nothing that builds character more than caring for the people and animals we adore. Enjoy your animals and the holiday season ahead!
Forgot to say I HAVE ONE PET DOVE TOO SO WILL CHERISH MORE THAN YOU KNOW!!!
YES, BIG HUG COMING YOUR WAY TODAY!!!!!!
XX
We all need that one dove and the peace it symbolizes! All the best to you!
I’m praying for your continued good health . You make the world a brighter, prettier, more elegant place and I’m so happy are better. It’s good to be able to work … it’s one of the things I find most rewarding . I wasn’t able to return to a full- time job but I tutor . It’s so rewarding and makes me feel useful again after being sick . I feel contributing in our own way, using our gifts is a blessing . Keep busy and know that God has great plans for your life ! I’ll be watching for your blogs… always the highlight of my month ! Take care of you !
Lynn – your words truly resonated with me. You are spot-on – after life’s great challenges we must find work and activities that fulfill us, body, soul and mind. Sometimes we are changed, but we are still ourselves and must nurture the things that make us who we are. Thank you so much for your kind words. It is our support of each other that keeps us all going. Wishing you continued good health and peace this holiday season.
I write to tell you – how your work – whether your visual art, your homes or your personal style have inspired not just me, but so many others. In a world of loud and ugly, looking at your art (in all areas) is a drink of cool spring water. You were given many gifts at birth and you have not wasted any of them-how very rare!
God bless you in your recovery-and may the coming holiday season be especially kind.
Regards-Monica
Monica – thank you so much for those beautiful thoughts! We are all blessed with gifts and resources and must find ways to use and share them – because that’s what it’s really all about, isn’t it? That was my main goal with Going to the Dogs! We also all need safe havens from the “loud and ugly” because our worlds are WAY too stressful at times – whether that’s time with loved ones, travel, the comfort of our pets or setting a beautiful table. We all deserve our version of zen. My best to you this holiday season – enjoy it all!
Carolyne,
I’m so relieved to hear that your health has recovered to your former vital self. Your new endeavor sounds wonderful and I look forward to hearing more.
Karen
Karen – thank you so much! It’s been such an exciting project because it’s brought together two of my greatest loves – design and my beloved pets. An endeavor like this has been the best medicine for me. Enjoy your holiday season!
Carolyne, I’ve used your “contact me” function 2x a few weeks ago re: the Organic Gold Cuff. I want to buy it but without the wrist measurement I hesitate since it’s not returnable. Can you please respond? (i.e., I have a 7/12-8″ wrist and need to know if it will fit). Thank you.
Hi Gina,
I apologize for not responding to your question. We had a bit of a problem with our contact section on the site, but it
has been corrected.
The Organic Gold Cuff length is 2″ and the Diameter is 2 1/2 inches.
Please let me know if I can be of further assistance.
Thank you
Linda
carolyneroehm.com
Dear Carolyne, I read here about your life-threatening illness, and just finished reading all these comments. I’m so moved by your story and the comments of your readers that I am weeping uncontrollably now. I met you in 2017 at Trade Secrets and bought your books and you gave me a free pass to visit your home the next day. I still talk about that weekend. A highlight of my life. You are and have been an inspiration — I haven’t painted in 2 years but am inspired to do so now. And for my upcoming January birthday I am getting a pair of your bee earrings!! Hope you continue to recover, and hope to see you next year at Trade Secrets! Thank you so much.
Deborah – I remember! Thank you so much for the kind, encouraging words. And you are correct – those comments are so supportive and generous and have kept me going through this tough time! Our take-aways are similar – do the things you love NOW, because tomorrow is waiting too long. Enjoy your holidays with your loved ones. All the best to you!
Linda Cantele December 11, 2019 at 2:50 pm – Reply
Hi Gina,
I apologize for not responding to your question. We had a bit of a problem with our contact section on the site, but it
has been corrected.
The Organic Gold Cuff length is 2″ and the Diameter is 2 1/2 inches.
Please let me know if I can be of further assistance.
Thank you
Linda
carolyneroehm.com
THANK YOU Linda for your response. Very much appreciated. I am SO bummed because that bracelet is F.A.B.U.L.O.U.S and a bit too small in diameter for me to purchase. (I’m crying as I write this…
Best,
Gina
Linda Cantele December 11, 2019 at 2:50 pm – Reply
Hi Gina,
I apologize for not responding to your question. We had a bit of a problem with our contact section on the site, but it
has been corrected.
The Organic Gold Cuff length is 2″ and the Diameter is 2 1/2 inches.
Please let me know if I can be of further assistance.
Thank you
Linda
carolyneroehm.com
Just found your site and think I have died and gone to heaven. Love everything that you do…
Best wishes for a new year.
Brenda – Happy New Year to you as well! Thank you so much for your lovely compliment. Enjoy!
I too am from Missouri (St Louis) and was deathly ill for almost a year but made it back. We were tough ! Love your designs . Stay well !
Suzie – I am so sorry to hear about your health struggles. But I’m grateful that we are writing to each other now. Never give up that fighting spirit – it serves us well time and time again (and sometimes, even saves us!). Take care of yourself. Wishing you health and happiness in 2020!
Your gorgeous bee, double door knocker earrings arrived today. They are absolutely gorgeous !!! Thrilled that you offered them in clip. So difficult to find non-pierced earrings. The beautiful, monogrammed box and paw print tissue paper were a heartwarming, extra special surprise! From one animal lover to another, thank you so much. I am now deciding what will be my next purchase from your bee 🐝 collection.
Janet – That’s wonderful! I’m so glad you are enjoying them – they were one of my favorite pieces in the collection. Wear them in good health (even if that’s currently at home!). All my best to you.